A 36-year-old man recently finalized a contested divorce with his ex-wife, triggered by her infidelity. They share a six-year-old daughter and settled on joint custody, which he now regrets due to his ex-wife’s affair partner being introduced to their daughter. The man feels immense pain and struggles to cope with the situation, questioning how to handle the presence of the man who helped destroy his family in his daughter’s life.

Upon learning that his daughter had spent time with his ex-wife’s affair partner, the man felt heartbroken and expressed his deep regret for agreeing to joint custody. He is grappling with the overwhelming pain of another man being involved in his daughter’s life and is unsure of how to cope with the situation. The man fears his reaction if he ever encounters the affair partner with his daughter and is seeking advice on how to handle the situation.

The man is questioning if it would be wrong for him to intervene and prevent his ex-wife’s affair partner from interacting with their daughter. He is seeking advice on how to cope with the unbearable feeling of another man being introduced into his child’s life and is unsure of how to navigate the situation moving forward.